What’s Gone Well Today? ®
Here’s an easy way to recognize others… and in turn change how we look at our day, and our life.
When has someone made your day with the service they’ve given, or something they’ve said or done for you? Sharing these moments may inspire others. They lift the spirit!
On another note asking someone What’s Gone Well Today? ®, becomes life-changing. Conversations have a fresh, inspiring perspective.
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Each night I phone an elder friend and listen to her day’s story, and I in turn share an idea from my day. She asks, ” What do you have for me tonight?” One idea was about the need for ‘regeneration.’ She loved it and referred to it day after day.
The other day she had been out walking in a nearby park and had been looking forward to telling me about it all day.
Borrowed this old wheelbarrow from a neighbour.. The handle broke.
I looked around at sites of several local stores and found a good ‘barrow for $40 off the regular price. When I phoned I found the sale ended three days earlier, and the fellow on the phone was matter of fact about it . Loni phoned asked to speak to a manager, to see if they’d still honour the price and they did. “If we say no we’ll loose you as a customer.”
I picked it up, used it for moving some soil… It was so much easier to use.
I told the neighbour that we could share the wheelbarrow whenever either of us needed it. She was pleased and gracious with the arrangement.
Since we bought a replacement , I listed this on a Freecycle site and three people wrote almost immediately to say they wanted it.
A homeowner left out these chairs in front of their home so folks on their neighbourhood walks have a rest point. Part of the WGWT is that others have respected the intent and not taken the chairs away.
A local organization accepted my proposal to facilitate an inspiration meeting earlier this week. It was highly structured, yet gave paticipants a space to bring up issues, reflect on each, and then share their inspirational reflections that came to them. There was so much love and ease in the room. Everyone worked within the structure so easily. Many people have contacted me saying how meaningful the experience was.
We dog-sat Jean Luc, our daughter’s puppy for 10 days. He added a lot to each day. Here he meets an older dog who has not had much doggie-socialization. They had such a wonderful time, and Jean the owner and I had a great chat.
I would like to share an experience that has been unfolding for me during the past few weeks before taking a drivers road test. The weekend before Easter, I returned home from a lovely couple of days with my daughters to find a letter from ICBC that said as of my reading this letter my drivers license was cancelled and I was to immediately sign the letter and mail it back with my license card . I was totally taken aback and upset , the letter said something about all the requirements for taking the Seniors test had not been met. On top of this , after looking at my calendar, I realized I had missed the date for purchasing car insurance and I had been driving for 24 hour without any. This was the Monday evening of our business meeting so I called a fellow member for a ride to church and during the drive I asked him if he could take me to my insurance brokers office first thing in the morning. He graciously, without hesitation, said yes – so at 8:15 last Tuesday we were on the road and I told him about this disturbing ICBC letter — he was reminded of an article he had read about a school girl who had applied for a part in a play and did not receive a call back, so she was dealing with disappointment and envy, feeling someone else must have gotten the part .
But one day after school she was helping out in the music room and the music teacher came in and said he was surprised she hadn’t come for her call back. She had never gotten the call – it had been a mistake and he gave her the call-back on the spot…the outcome was she got a really good role in the play.
So after I got home after paying for my insurance, I called the ICBC office and a very sweet girl spent quiet a bit of time trying to find out what this was all about and it turned out to be a computer glitch that I had not booked my drivers test within 30 days of notification – which I had done. It was a mistake, the event was neither true nor real and really – a lesson to me not to react to error.
However, I too was dealing with discouragement and envy too – discouragement that I was at that place in the material sense of life where I would be required to take a driving test every two years from now on and envy that those younger and not necessarily great drivers did not. So I set about changing my thinking during the week before the test, which was yesterday. I realized this was not about me, this was about loving my neighbor – being careful, “full of care” for the pedestrian, the cyclist, the motorbiker, and fellow drivers on the road.
Yesterday my daughter went with me for the test, another requirement to have someone with you in case you fail and need a ride home and she was very supportive with good spiritual healing ideas. The outcome was I passed – I did not completely overcome anxiety over the whole process but I never doubted that God would not take me right through it . I’m so grateful too for those I came in contact with, the sweet girl at ICBC, a very kind, compassionate road test man, and then my fellow church member and my daughter who were there for me.